Yes, that's correct. While I dont use Twitter or Facebook, I don't subscribe to every community on Lemmy, and in the communities i do subscribe to, I don't open every post -- least of all the ones i actively don't want to see the content of. It's very easy to simply not read the things I have no interest in seeing, and if I do happen across a discussion I'm uninterested in, I realize ky mistake and close it.

This really isn't rocket science, dude. Have some personal responsibility for your media diet and stop worrying about everyone else's behavior. It's a far less stressful way to live.

Yes, of course most people have things they dont want to read a post about. The way they accomplish that is by not clicking links to discussions they have no interest in. Maybe we should consider that an option instead of one population exerting control over what another population occupying the same space can say in such a broad way?

Counterpoint:

In my experience, the only people concerned with "keeping politics out" of a space are people who don't belong to politicized groups or hold politicized identities (thus affording them the comfort to not pay attention to politics or discuss it), and the majority of the time it's because they themselves hold "political opinions" that would get their nose broken if they said them without a keyboard to hide behind. I'm not super comfortable with capitulating to that crowd, especially when the rules would more often punish people talking about their experiences than aren't the cisheteronormative default.

Overly harsh? Maybe. But if I'm trapped in this political moment, I want to be able to discuss what that means for personal life, and that includes how personal politics can interact with sex ajd relationships.

I don't mind either to be honest. People are pretty in many color schemes.

First time? Negative. We were both teenagers with questionable diets. His was overly salty and he said mine was bitter. Still hot though, and i actually kind of liked the smell and texture. I still hook up with him sometimes and we both taste much better 15 yesrs later lmao.

Having both a male and female FWB.

Happy to be a beneficiary of your boredom!

Quite a bit!

Looks good to me!

A couple of things come to mind, but one of the biggest is when they aren't afraid to geek out about their thing. I meet someone very into...idk model trains, and seeing their enthusiasm about it will definitely start to make me more interested in them. It won't necessarily attract me on its own but it can be the thing that pushes me over the edge. In hindsight this might be why I keep hooking up with the neurospicy crowd without intending to.

Girls wearing "boy" clothes.

Boys wearing weather inappropriate basketball shorts. Doubly so with skate type shoes (Vans, Fallen, Etnies, etc). Idk maybe my ideal male style is stuck in 2007.

Just generally people cooler than me, which isnt a high bar to clear lol.

That's so hot

I think I would have to call my penis "fine." I do wish I wasn't circumcised, though. As far as confidence, I would say overall yes. I'm more concerned with knowing how to use it than with the hardware itself.