[–] 3 points 4 months ago

Hi, nice to see you also made the switch here from lemmynsfw ^^
I personally think that in any such dynamic it should be established that your job, family, friends, finances and health shouldn't be negatively affected by the dynamic.
A master/owner/etc also has a responsibility to look out for you and how you are doing.
Financial independence is definitely a good thing.
Hard limits should be communicated beforehand.
Even if everything works well, any kind of dynamic and relationship benefits from regular communication, everybody should have a personal conversation about how things are going with there partner every 1-2 Months. Even if there's nothing to improve currently, highlight what's been going well and what the other person does that you love. Makes it just better for everybody.
Don't commit to a stranger, it sucks to commit and then find out you are incompatible. If there's a previously established dynamic, build from that gradually to see how it develops and if it works for both people.
And of course always be safe an look out for yourself <3

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  • [–] 11 points 4 months ago (4 children)

    Oh, that's totally real, I get them all the time. They appear a few seconds after heavy impacts from canes or batons. These kinds of marks are basically the early stage of a bruise, you might even get a bruise directly if you do it hard enough or if the lines cross each other. They also slightly bulge out of your skin, so if you have a lot of them you can feel their texture when running your hand over them.

    And yeah, some women not only endure being caned, they actually enjoy it 😉

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