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Discord Communities (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 week ago by to c/transgender@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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Does anyone else struggle with trans discord servers? I've mostly given up on them because of how cliquey they get. I also feel like there's a lot of tone policing that turns into dog piling. I feel more at home in nonqueer groups at this point which makes it hard to find places where I can fully express myself as an enby. The best experiences I've had are in art communities that happen to have queer people because everyone is pretty expressive.

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[–] 3 points 17 hours ago

Discord is a terrible place, so it is not surprising to hear of other negative experiences.

You may have a better time on Stoat. Last time I checked it out(avoid the main server) the people were quite lovely. Wherever you end up, remember that you are valid and you are doing great!

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    [–] 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    try matrix, 196 has public chatrooms i help moderate, and you can apply for the genderverse rooms that ada and kaity (blahaj admins) run, both are full of cool queer peeps

    196 space: https://matrix.to/#%2F%217ApakjBY%5C_Px9RWqFw4R3%5C_GZWszdlNAsAUcenCeja4mQ%3Fvia=catgirl.cloud&via=matrix.org&via=chat.blahaj.zone

    genderverse applications: https://matrix.to/#/#gv-apply:chat.blahaj.zone

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