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[-] Aberration13@lemmy.world 85 points 3 weeks ago

those are not silhouettes though, multiple have shading and would not be recognizeable without the extra surface detail

I have my brightness low enough that all of them look like silhouettes, and the only one I didn't recognize is the one I'm not familiar with.

[-] tiramichu@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 weeks ago

Didn't see them either because I don't keep my brightness setting on "thermonuclear explosion"

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[-] Una@europe.pub 30 points 3 weeks ago

Scheiss auf mein chungus leben

But hey whazzup with Dat boiii

[-] qyron@sopuli.xyz 18 points 3 weeks ago

So... I see a soap dispenser, a really fat rabbit, a weird vaccuum cleaner and a couple of silly putty figurines.

What am I supposed to be looking at?

[-] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 30 points 3 weeks ago
[-] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 15 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Fun fact: if you have a vagina you can do a maneuver called "vaginal splinting!" If you're constipated you can just stick a finger up your vagina (I find using my thumb to be the easiest), and you press on the back wall. You can literally just squeeze the shit out like it's a tube of toothpaste!

[-] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 days ago

returning to this, out of cursed curiosity, how does it actually feel doing that splinting? i can't imagine it's comfy.

[-] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

It's not uncomfy. I find most pressure on that area is largely interpreted by my senses through a strong contextual filter and I perceive the context as neutral-beneficial so it doesn't really bother me.

[-] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

that surprises me, interesting. thank you for the explanation!

i suppose it's like if you gently push your tongue onto a side of the cheek, and then push on that cheek with your finger. at least, that's the closest analogy my mind can make... longing for the surgery, honestly.

still, surprising that there would be a counterindication against doing that if you have a new vagina, even if it healed a long time ago. >:(

since you talked about feeling like the other parts have their kind of benefits - i wonder if other people also sometimes wonder what it feels like to have the opposite part (beside the dysphoria). do you have that too?

[-] turbowafflz@lemmy.world 16 points 3 weeks ago

i cant tell whether this knowledge makes my dysphoria better or worse

[-] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 8 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I like to look on the bright side when I can. A penis seems better in many ways and It's very possible I would have been happier to be born with one naturally (stand to pee when hiking, less random goop, easier to top), but I do also have to remind myself that the vagina has at least a few upsides (splinting, easier to bottom). Many people also like the feature where you get a little copy of yourself but personally I had that patched out.

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[-] festnt@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 weeks ago

what the fuck that's sick

the gender neutral vereion of this must be using chopsticks to pull poop out of your own butt

[-] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 12 points 3 weeks ago

I have no idea whether you're using the positive or negative connotation of sick but in either case my answer would be "you're welcome" so.

[-] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

this is either cursed or incredibly handy

once i've had my surgery i might try this out (after it's all healed and well of course!)

[-] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago

Oh that's actually the main contraindication. Even healed scar tissue is basically always slightly weaker than normal skin (it'll even reopen years later if you suddenly have a severe vitamin c deficiency) and in this case could cause a fistula.

[-] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 weeks ago

Ugh, cis privilege strikes again! /j

(I know, it's not per se a privilege, but damn, there goes my chance to do a funny :( )

[-] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I mean it is but it's also a privilege (perk is maybe a better term contextually) that gets lost by women who have had to have some kind of significant repair. I would think the main risk factor there is childbirth so it's likely they outnumber you demographically. You also can ask your surgeon, there's a possibility that what you're specifically having done is less risky or has become more robust since I last read up on this.

[-] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 weeks ago

I'm blanking a bit on this. Wdym, they outnumber me demographically? I mean yes, there are more people w/ a vagina who gave birth than trans women w/ a vagina, but what relevance does that have in this regard? That there's more research on the former than on the latter?

[-] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Not a cis privilege. It's a "women who haven't had vaginal surgery" privilege, of which trans women are likely a small portion.

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[-] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

They're all memes. Jar-Jar Binks, amogus, a toothpaste shitting out the paste, and Robert Downey Jr. meme on the top row. Big chungus, Peter Griffin, the only one I don't recognize, and trollface on the bottom.

[-] sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 weeks ago

The only one I got was jar jar

[-] Patrikvo@lemmy.zip 4 points 3 weeks ago

What's worse is the implication that Jar-jar was good character design.

[-] QueenHawlSera@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 weeks ago

He was, just not for the movie he was in.

I mean Minions can be funny, but you'd never put one in Lord of the Rings.

[-] sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 weeks ago

I think he was but I was the target audience

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[-] tomenzgg@midwest.social 2 points 3 weeks ago

Jar-Jar Binks

I…thought that was Sailor Moon

[-] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 3 weeks ago

What's the second-to-last one on the lower row?

[-] asqapro@reddthat.com 20 points 3 weeks ago
[-] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 13 points 3 weeks ago

Sometimes I think I'm chronically online, then I find a new awesome meme that's been around for a while.

[-] RVGamer06@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 weeks ago

Used to be on r/ComedyNecrophilia shortly before leaving reddit. That guy was all over the place

[-] belated_frog_pants@beehaw.org 2 points 3 weeks ago

Ty only one i didnt recognize 🫣

[-] froufox@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 3 weeks ago

the depiction of le trollface is non-canonical

[-] MarcomachtKuchen@feddit.org 10 points 3 weeks ago

Comedynecrophlia the sticker set

but you recognize them ☝️

[-] essell@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago

I do not know any of these, for which I blame my age.

not even Jar-Jar or Peter Griffin?

[-] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 3 weeks ago

I thought Jar-Jar was a long haired skater or snowboarder at first 😄

(The silhouette above, not the ACTUAL Binkmeister)

[-] essell@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago

Okay, if you point them out I can find them with a little effort.

I thought jar-jar was shrek but wasn't convinced.

I can see Peter Griffen now you say that. Not watched much of him. Only need to watch four episodes and you know all the jokes they'll ever use. 🤣😏

[-] GlendatheGayWitch@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

I thought top left was Sailor Moon at first, but I can see Jar-Jar too

Magical Girl Jar-Jar Moon

[-] BreadOven@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

Jar Jar, Among us, blank, blank, chungus, peter griffin, blank, troll face.

[-] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

First two blanks are shitting toothpaste and tony stark deadpan humour, third blank is finna jerk it

[-] BreadOven@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago
[-] SandraBollocks@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

michael richards, lol

[-] Cevilia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 weeks ago

I don't recognise any of these. Maybe I'm just getting old.

[-] Baleine@jlai.lu 6 points 3 weeks ago
[-] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

obligatory stonetoss is a Nazi

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