I've made a LOT of homemade porn over the years. Lots of videos and lots and lots of pictures. I'm a man in my late 50s and have been making homemade porn alone and with partners since digital cameras first became a thing. In fact, I have homemade port on Polaroids and 35mm. A fair number of my friends have seen my pictures and some have seen my videos. I'm overweight but I have a nice penis so I've never really worried about it. If it were small or crooked or otherwise ugly I would be more concerned but when I get one of those emails threatening to send me private pictures to everyone I know if I don't pay up in bitcoin I anways want to respond, "Can I give you a list of the people I would really like to see my cock?" It would be a real conversation starter with some people.

with the advent of snapchat, it’s never been easier to send the wrong person lewds!

the one notable time it happened to me ended up opening a dialogue that would NOT have been there otherwise. 5+ years later and we’re gonna start dating soon!

so hey, who knows, could be all upsides ^^

I fucking hope not

I found a friend naked online and I didn't bring it up. Later he told me and I shares that I may have found it. We laughed about it and talked more openly about the sex industry in general as a whole.

There's no attraction. But there was potential mingling, like when a friend was curious and I said, "Oh I know a guy you can chat with!"

Haven't had it personally, but my ex had a funny story about their ex spouse:

Ex (we'll call them ME) was a porn star for a long time, and still is last I heard. They'd always done a lot of fetish stuff, because it pays. Feet pics, I helped them buy pudding for a porn shoot once, lotta stuff.

Anyway, their ex had a thing for feet, which ME was fine obliging. However, one day ME was scrolling through the pics on their phone, showing their ex some of their older work. The ex spouse tells them to stop, and pulls their own phone out to show EB... The exact same picture of EB's feet on their own phone that they'd downloaded 10 years prior, and kept.

Not sure I’d want them to tell me. The idea of it is fun, but also gives me anxiety.