If you know a better one I’d love to hear about it
OCaml's OPAM. They actually took into account that it could be desirable to use software written in other languages in your OCaml project. It even has a bunch of stuff packaged that's written in Rust. Imagine that the other way around. It only has stub packages for compilers like gcc but I assume that's likely because they don't want to have people spend hours building the whole thing themselves when there's a perfectly good one on their system, rather than it not being possible to do.
I love Rust but I will die on this hill that combining package manager and build system like Cargo does and then only making it work for a single language is a lot worse than what C++ does, because if it doesn't work for your project you're screwed. Everything expects you to use Cargo, especially if you intend to publish a library, with C++ you can at least pretty much always get the build setup to do what you need, and you can import whatever as long as it comes with a pkg-config file.
Added on top of that is a modern dependency management system that is severely needed in languages like C and C++
You're looking for Nix (unless you're a Windows developer, work on getting that to work is ongoing). There's very likely other good ones too, but this is the one I like and am familiar with. The difference is that it's not a package manager for C++, but a package manager that also packages C++ packages. Which makes it so much more versatile than something like Cargo, because you can accurately represent dependency chains regardless of what language each package is written in. My Nix + CMake projects will build consistently on every Linux or Mac computer (you can't say the same for Rust crates because they will look for stuff in system directories because Cargo can't package anything that isn't Rust), and you can depend on them similarly to how you would a Rust crate, with the difference that you can depend on them not only in another C++ project, but also in a Python package, a Go package, or whatever else that can be packaged with Nix. And if you can't use Nix, then you can always build the CMake project directly, package it somewhere else maybe, because the two parts are not coupled together at all.