I definitely can understand it, but that isn't mutually exclusive with me wishing people would take a second to check the community they're commenting in.

I've never implied it was malice (suggesting closed-source software in a FOSS community is a pretty weak example in maliciousness even if on purpose!) And really I wouldn't say I'm worked up, I just wanted to bring this up because I've noticed this type of thing happen across a couple FOSS communities on lemmy and maybe someone will see my original comment and be more mindful of it next time.