That was quite the successful outing. Too bad we don't have a good sauna in NYC anymore. Something like that shower scene might be a fantasy of mine 😅

If he's still "straight" I get why he might have trouble staying hard. It's not a physical thing but it's a mental thing. That much newness creates a lot of anxiety. I've been there. He should have been more up front about it and definitely should have let you know he was going to blow!