Being insulting seems like a great way to get negative feedback. The way this works is that most abhorrent behavior in most communities is a small minority. You get offended by 0.5% and instead of blocking 3 people you insult 1000 and get in turn mild negativity and now feel justified.

I've also seen folks who expect people to kiss their rear describe any critique as hate because they honestly dont know how people communicate.

Either way nobody really needed to know you are no longer posting you could have just not posted.

I imagine the percentage of simps on lemmy is lower than other social media. I wouldn't expect this to be a profitable platform based on that assumption