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Do you ever masturbate without reaching orgasm and still enjoy it? (lemmynsfw.com)
submitted 3 years ago* by to c/asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com
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(Male if it matters)

I don't know if I'm reaching a new level of sexual maturity or what. Lately instead of looking at hardcore porn and furiously jerking off until I cum, I'm looking at no pics or lewd pics on Lemmy, and taking my time to feel as much of the sensations as I can. I'm finding that I don't need to reach an orgasm to still feel pleasure and like I enjoyed myself. I'm not talking about edging - I don't get that close. Just enjoying the good vibes.

Anyone else? Do you set expectations when you sit down to masturbate? Do you expect to achieve orgasm and get frustrated when you don't?

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[–] 5 points 3 years ago

Yep I know what you mean. I've been doing this lately.

Mainly because I want to watch porn and enjoy masturbating to it, but not loose my drive to have sex with my partner later. So I'll jerk it for a bit then stop when I feel I'm getting close.

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