Ah man, that's a shame. At least you haven't completely said goodbye! From your descriptions, I actually would like to meet him myself, who knows - maybe get some fun in!

I've spent time in the gym and I have to say the dudes who are extremely muscular more often than not are dealing with some really personal shit that, instead of resolving with therapy, are just building muscle and then getting body dysmorphia in the process. I'm not surprised he is so weird, but it's still a shame - everyone deserves a shot at happiness!