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[–] 1 point 2 days ago

It's too complex and I'm not qualified but here's my take on this:
We live in a patriarchal society where men are told all those things they need are feminine traits and their masculinity is valued in the most toxic way, so when adults seem to have nothing they need nor expected one would think, like you do, they should learn, evolve and reconstruct what's broken. But you are using logic and people are idiots too tired or too lazy to put all the energy and effort required to do that.
There's also that human thing that apparently used to help us survive somehow where, when confronted with the harsh reality, we tend to choose our own beliefs instead or follow the logical path of questioning everything and adapt according to the answers. We fight wars to defend what our environment instilled into our minds. The manosphere tell them they are right, their beliefs are true, they offer them a group to be the worse version of themselves thinking they are doing what's right and that the uncomfortable world telling them otherwise is wrong.
Comforting lies vs rough truth; lies win too many times. It's like a cult and we all know how hard it is to get someone out of those.

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