Most women personally know another woman who was a victim
Most men don’t personally know a man who was a perpetrator
Points 4 and 5 are contradictory. Assuming men and women are in equal proportions in the population and distribute normally, the only way this would be possible is if somehow all the men in a single neighbourhood commit all the rapes around the city. This doesn't stand up to common sense.
The real problem here is arguments of authority are presented without the possibility to disagree with them, even as they don't hold up on face value.