Me too, most games with Anticheat are toxic hellholes anyway. Source: decades of playing LoL, Dota2 and a few other multiplayer titles.
The last PvP multiplayer title i really engaged with that didn't suffer from that (outside of some random WoW CTF while waiting for the next raid) was Mechwarrior 4 - was recruited into a clan during a public match because i wrecked my opposition pretty good without simply relying on piloting a Daishi. That was a nice experience, pretty cozy atmosphere with these guys.