Well again youre assuming that someone using a sex toy reinforces patriarchal norms which is a big thing to just take for given. Is sex toy ownership mentally problematic for people who arent men?

Sorry not trying to dog on you specifically, but it feels like theres so much moralizing about if men should be “allowed” to own toys or if its “good for them”. We dont have any research about what these effects will actually be but a lot of people here are just assuming any body whos gonna buy one of these things is some dangerous pervert, which seems reactionary to my eyes.