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[–] whereitsat@lemmy.zip 30 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

you found the one location where there's a fat guy and four fit women.

too bad real life doesn't have achievements like steam does.

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[+] thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com -16 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

that guy isnt particularly fat

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[–] boonhet@lemmy.zip 20 points 2 weeks ago

Arm is obscuring how big the stomach is but there are signs.

Source: I can tell from some of the pixels and from having been quite fat in my time

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[–] seerdomin1983@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

That muffin top is pretty chunky. He must have a lot of money. Or this is staged/fake/bait.

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[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 21 points 2 weeks ago

Definitely staged. What wife, upon discovering she's being cheated on, finds two friends to help her make a humourous sign like this, and then waits for them to be at McDonald's?

As for everything else? Who knows. These women do look more attractive than this man from behind, but it's hard to judge the entirety of a person from a picture, even if it's a good picture. I've seen less attractive people with more attractive people (though usually not multiple). There's a lot of ways to be attractive besides just looks.

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[+] terranoid@lemmy.cafe 1 point 2 weeks ago*

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