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[CW: Misgendering] Any other Neopronoun users struggling to get people to use their preferred pronouns? (lemmy.dbzer0.com)
submitted 2 months ago by to c/trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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I'm someone who goes by Ze/Zir pronouns. I've done so for years. I originally went by they/them pronouns but I didn't like them much and they just don't feel right for me. When I discovered neopronouns they just felt right. Unfortunately I haven't had much luck getting people to refer to me by my preferred pronouns.

Even here on Lemmy lots of people still refer to me by they/them or worse she/her. It feels really bad. Does anyone else on here struggle with this?

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[–] 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

I’ve had a situation the other day where I got scolded because in my comment I apparently omitted the existence of people who are plural.

If you are refering to us talking about non-humans, we apologise. We did not mean to come off as scolding you. If it was not us then that is very unfortunate and you deserve better.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Thanks, yes, it was that situation. Apology accepted, and I want to apologize as well because I do feel I was a little more caustic in one of my comments than I wanted to be. I'm still pondering why this made me so reactive, but haven't fully understood myself yet. Work in progress.

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