Ah okay, sorry. Though if you'd call that trauma, you haven't seen trauma 😊
It was sad to watch, but I was already 20yrs retired before he even thought about it. And called me lazy for that lol. He was a well conditioned boomer-worker-bee. Yet didn't even manage a boomer-house by then. But still, life was all about working. Just because.
Might've phrased it a bit off in hindsight.