I didn't mean to downplay the issues listed by you. Those are real challenges.
I rather wanted to put them into perspective.

You're right that operating an EV is in some ways similar to the early days of combustion engines, where getting a refill often meant looking for a pharmacy to buy ethanol.

The infrastructure needs to be improved and this will happen, because there's money to be made.
Alas that's the reason for not having a vast oversupply of charging stations, because they have a better ROI when being heavier utilized.
With more EVs on the road there will be more chargers and that will make it easier to find one nearby that's free and operational.
Time is on our side - at least in that case; I hope so.