That sounds like an income vs cost of living issue to me. It wouldn't really be feasible to move until many, many years in if you were making mortgage payments of 50% or more of your takehome.
Ngl in this imagined scenario where shelter is taking up 50% of your income, you're kinda fucked regardless of renting or owning. There's no way you'd be able to save enough money to replace the roof (25k?) Replace aging sewer pipes (9k to reline, maybe 15k to replace?) Or replace the windows (haven't gotten quotes for this yet, but I'm dreading it). You'll have to get financing for those fixes, so that's even more interest.
However if you get a better job elsewhere, it is far easier to take advantage of that opportunity if you rent.
You have no equity when renting, but you also haven't spent a cent on maintenance, and you don't have to deal with closing costs, taxes, and whatnot.