I don't have the luxury of working from home, but def feel this as a tech guy in a no - tech family.

No one cares about how I found some crusty old code that was not at all optimized that I trimmed an order of magnitude off its run time, nor how I fixed some dumb debugging logic a coworker inserted that caused a race condition once in a while; hell basically no one would understand unless I explained ELI5 style.

The especially hard part is that the dynamic OP is meme-ing on is the reverse of me and my fiancé (I'm the male and I want to talk, she's the female and wants to forget she even has a job the moment she's out of the office).