Look, not everyone has the desire and capability to fight. I will say that I've had good success these last few years being vulnerable with other "woke" men and it's been very freeing to share things I thought I experienced alone but to see that other men have gone through similar things.

I haven't had a lot of success being vulnerable with women, but I'm getting to the point where that is a boundary for me. I'm not going to pursue friendships with people who can't accept me for who I am and who reinforce toxic gender roles.

I've personally witnessed a lot of progress on this end and I'm excited to seeing more and being part of it when I can.

I'm glad you have a therapist, everyone needs someone they can share with.

Sorry you haven't met someone who isn't an asshole on this front.