Yeah, it was a surprise just how different it felt. When it's just text over chat your imagination fills in a lot of blanks, and of course while you're masturbating you fill imagine it as the hottest thing to do. Also not having to say any of the things you type out loud helps. When you're actually in the same room with your dick out it's so very different.
Chatting about porn and jerking off kind of stopped as well. I actually did bring it up once to ask him about how he'd finished in the bathroom, but it immediately felt like that same awkward vibe about it. So from then on we occasionally still brought up crushes, but our main crushes never really went anywhere at that point and we kind of stopped talking about them too.

I think the whole thing was mainly driven by horny curiosity, and after talking about all the details and having done the thing IRL, it was kind of.. done? I guess. I did afterwards occasionally fantasise what it'd have been like if I'd reached over and jerked him off. But I'm 99% sure that would've taken it too far for him. Since he wasn't comfortable cumming next to me and stuff.