You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink, especially not when you barely have time in the day to take a drink yourself.
If someone doesn't have time or will to put privacy over convenience that's kind of their gig. It sucks but like I can't fuckin' change their life schedule/priorities.
I spend enough time documenting and working in my homelab, I don't need other people's too. I'll be happy to point people towards information and documentation, but that's about it.
However if you're not willing to:
- bury your nose in multiple wikis
- change out the OS on nearly every general purpose computing device you own
- Live most of your online life anonymously/pseudononymously
- Run a homelab (technically not required but makes life nicer)
You should stop while you're ahead.
If you have kids I have no fucking clue how you'd even begin.
At that point you're installing rootkit anticheat just to get little johnny playing games with their friends, fucking nightmare scenario.