▲ 975 ▼ It's not just you — no one is posting on social media anymore (www.businessinsider.com) submitted 3 years ago by Uranium3006@kbin.social to c/technology@lemmy.world 330 comments fedilink hide all child comments Social media is on the decline. Instagram is all ads. No one's posting on BeReal. TikTok is for influencers. The new place for sharing: group chats.
[–] MentalEdge@ani.social 91 points 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) (19 children) Like for real!! I was a semi-lurker on reddit. Posted a couple times a year. I just passed 500 posts on Lemmy. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 19 child comments replies: [–] Weslee@lemmy.world 49 points 3 years ago (14 children) I've found lemmy to be alot less hostile, don't care about downvotes, but attacking people because of opinions doesn't sound like a fun time to me permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 14 child comments replies: [–] tburkhol@lemmy.world 44 points 3 years ago (10 children) The absence of a running karma total is a surprisingly powerful difference. I do still look back at old posts, and it's nice when there's votes, but without the little number next to a name or when I mouse-over a profile, there's no motivation to be the first in a thread to repost a cliche joke or to ragebait for fake internet points. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 10 child comments replies: [–] RagnarokOnline@reddthat.com 20 points 3 years ago (3 children) I think the “not having to be first” is what is so powerful. I know that if I comment on a post from a few days ago on a populated community, I’ll likely at least get a reply from OP, if not a bunch of other people finding my comment and replying as well. It’s like Lemmy is the nice, small-town version of Reddit (which is probably more similar to Gary Indiana). permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] scurry@lemmy.world 10 points 3 years ago (2 children) That’s a bit cruel to Gary, Indiana, don’t you think? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] RagnarokOnline@reddthat.com 3 points 3 years ago (1 child) Check it out: https://abc7chicago.com/gary-indiana-most-miserable-city-in-us-cities/5582601/ permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] scurry@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago McBane thats the joke.gif permalink fedilink source parent [–] Eezyville@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 years ago (5 children) I hated most of those cliche jokes. Here I am looking for real conversation only to be met with thousands of not witty low effort jokes. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [+] somedaysoon@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] morrowind@lemmy.ml 4 points 3 years ago (1 child) There used to be a bot rating bot on reddit that used those comments to see which bots where actually good. It was useful. I'm hoping someone will make the same on lemmy and go back retroactively to index old comments. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [+] somedaysoon@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent [–] Eezyville@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) I think that on some bots it is meant as feedback on its performance but to have 10 users give the same feedback is kinda annoying. Maybe Lemmy can have a feature were humans can approve/disapprove bot performance that doesn't involve upvote/downvote. It would only be available to bot accounts in the site's UI. Could possibly expand it's functionality to something more useful. Or just use the voting system because it's already in place. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [+] somedaysoon@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent [–] agent_flounder@lemmy.one 9 points 3 years ago Lemmy definitely has a more chill, human vibe than I got with Reddit, given how overrun the latter was with vast armies of shills, bots, alt right trolls, etc. Not that it's all rainbow-pooping unicorns frolicking through flowery meadows here but at least the dick comments tend to be much rarer and often a one off for the person making them. permalink fedilink source parent [–] DarthBueller@lemmy.world 4 points 3 years ago Opinions are fine. Being disingenuous/an asshole at the same time as having an opinion definitely provokes smackdowns, even on lemmy. permalink fedilink source parent [–] simin@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago Same goes for 9gag but that site is different permalink fedilink source parent [–] lom@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 years ago (3 children) Huh, when I clicked on your profile it says 0 posts... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] pjhenry1216@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago (1 child) Profiles are rarely accurate. I viewed the same profile from two different instances (yes the same profile, not the same username from two different instances) and they didn't even have the age of thr account the same. One was 2 years, one was 2 months. So I wouldn't trust that. I'd only trust it if you're logged into that very instance. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 1 point 3 years ago* In this case it's more likely to be because that's one of my alts. This is my main. permalink fedilink source parent [–] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 1 point 3 years ago Read the bio. That's not my main. This is. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Weslee@lemmy.world 49 points 3 years ago (14 children) I've found lemmy to be alot less hostile, don't care about downvotes, but attacking people because of opinions doesn't sound like a fun time to me permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 14 child comments replies: [–] tburkhol@lemmy.world 44 points 3 years ago (10 children) The absence of a running karma total is a surprisingly powerful difference. I do still look back at old posts, and it's nice when there's votes, but without the little number next to a name or when I mouse-over a profile, there's no motivation to be the first in a thread to repost a cliche joke or to ragebait for fake internet points. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 10 child comments replies: [–] RagnarokOnline@reddthat.com 20 points 3 years ago (3 children) I think the “not having to be first” is what is so powerful. I know that if I comment on a post from a few days ago on a populated community, I’ll likely at least get a reply from OP, if not a bunch of other people finding my comment and replying as well. It’s like Lemmy is the nice, small-town version of Reddit (which is probably more similar to Gary Indiana). permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] scurry@lemmy.world 10 points 3 years ago (2 children) That’s a bit cruel to Gary, Indiana, don’t you think? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] RagnarokOnline@reddthat.com 3 points 3 years ago (1 child) Check it out: https://abc7chicago.com/gary-indiana-most-miserable-city-in-us-cities/5582601/ permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] scurry@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago McBane thats the joke.gif permalink fedilink source parent [–] Eezyville@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 years ago (5 children) I hated most of those cliche jokes. Here I am looking for real conversation only to be met with thousands of not witty low effort jokes. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [+] somedaysoon@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] morrowind@lemmy.ml 4 points 3 years ago (1 child) There used to be a bot rating bot on reddit that used those comments to see which bots where actually good. It was useful. I'm hoping someone will make the same on lemmy and go back retroactively to index old comments. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [+] somedaysoon@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent [–] Eezyville@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) I think that on some bots it is meant as feedback on its performance but to have 10 users give the same feedback is kinda annoying. Maybe Lemmy can have a feature were humans can approve/disapprove bot performance that doesn't involve upvote/downvote. It would only be available to bot accounts in the site's UI. Could possibly expand it's functionality to something more useful. Or just use the voting system because it's already in place. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [+] somedaysoon@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent [–] agent_flounder@lemmy.one 9 points 3 years ago Lemmy definitely has a more chill, human vibe than I got with Reddit, given how overrun the latter was with vast armies of shills, bots, alt right trolls, etc. Not that it's all rainbow-pooping unicorns frolicking through flowery meadows here but at least the dick comments tend to be much rarer and often a one off for the person making them. permalink fedilink source parent [–] DarthBueller@lemmy.world 4 points 3 years ago Opinions are fine. Being disingenuous/an asshole at the same time as having an opinion definitely provokes smackdowns, even on lemmy. permalink fedilink source parent [–] simin@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago Same goes for 9gag but that site is different permalink fedilink source parent
[–] tburkhol@lemmy.world 44 points 3 years ago (10 children) The absence of a running karma total is a surprisingly powerful difference. I do still look back at old posts, and it's nice when there's votes, but without the little number next to a name or when I mouse-over a profile, there's no motivation to be the first in a thread to repost a cliche joke or to ragebait for fake internet points. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 10 child comments replies: [–] RagnarokOnline@reddthat.com 20 points 3 years ago (3 children) I think the “not having to be first” is what is so powerful. I know that if I comment on a post from a few days ago on a populated community, I’ll likely at least get a reply from OP, if not a bunch of other people finding my comment and replying as well. It’s like Lemmy is the nice, small-town version of Reddit (which is probably more similar to Gary Indiana). permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] scurry@lemmy.world 10 points 3 years ago (2 children) That’s a bit cruel to Gary, Indiana, don’t you think? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] RagnarokOnline@reddthat.com 3 points 3 years ago (1 child) Check it out: https://abc7chicago.com/gary-indiana-most-miserable-city-in-us-cities/5582601/ permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] scurry@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago McBane thats the joke.gif permalink fedilink source parent [–] Eezyville@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 years ago (5 children) I hated most of those cliche jokes. Here I am looking for real conversation only to be met with thousands of not witty low effort jokes. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [+] somedaysoon@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] morrowind@lemmy.ml 4 points 3 years ago (1 child) There used to be a bot rating bot on reddit that used those comments to see which bots where actually good. It was useful. I'm hoping someone will make the same on lemmy and go back retroactively to index old comments. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [+] somedaysoon@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent [–] Eezyville@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) I think that on some bots it is meant as feedback on its performance but to have 10 users give the same feedback is kinda annoying. Maybe Lemmy can have a feature were humans can approve/disapprove bot performance that doesn't involve upvote/downvote. It would only be available to bot accounts in the site's UI. Could possibly expand it's functionality to something more useful. Or just use the voting system because it's already in place. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [+] somedaysoon@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] RagnarokOnline@reddthat.com 20 points 3 years ago (3 children) I think the “not having to be first” is what is so powerful. I know that if I comment on a post from a few days ago on a populated community, I’ll likely at least get a reply from OP, if not a bunch of other people finding my comment and replying as well. It’s like Lemmy is the nice, small-town version of Reddit (which is probably more similar to Gary Indiana). permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] scurry@lemmy.world 10 points 3 years ago (2 children) That’s a bit cruel to Gary, Indiana, don’t you think? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] RagnarokOnline@reddthat.com 3 points 3 years ago (1 child) Check it out: https://abc7chicago.com/gary-indiana-most-miserable-city-in-us-cities/5582601/ permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] scurry@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago McBane thats the joke.gif permalink fedilink source parent
[–] scurry@lemmy.world 10 points 3 years ago (2 children) That’s a bit cruel to Gary, Indiana, don’t you think? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] RagnarokOnline@reddthat.com 3 points 3 years ago (1 child) Check it out: https://abc7chicago.com/gary-indiana-most-miserable-city-in-us-cities/5582601/ permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] scurry@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago McBane thats the joke.gif permalink fedilink source parent
[–] RagnarokOnline@reddthat.com 3 points 3 years ago (1 child) Check it out: https://abc7chicago.com/gary-indiana-most-miserable-city-in-us-cities/5582601/ permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] scurry@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago McBane thats the joke.gif permalink fedilink source parent
[–] scurry@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago McBane thats the joke.gif permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Eezyville@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 years ago (5 children) I hated most of those cliche jokes. Here I am looking for real conversation only to be met with thousands of not witty low effort jokes. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [+] somedaysoon@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] morrowind@lemmy.ml 4 points 3 years ago (1 child) There used to be a bot rating bot on reddit that used those comments to see which bots where actually good. It was useful. I'm hoping someone will make the same on lemmy and go back retroactively to index old comments. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [+] somedaysoon@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent [–] Eezyville@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) I think that on some bots it is meant as feedback on its performance but to have 10 users give the same feedback is kinda annoying. Maybe Lemmy can have a feature were humans can approve/disapprove bot performance that doesn't involve upvote/downvote. It would only be available to bot accounts in the site's UI. Could possibly expand it's functionality to something more useful. Or just use the voting system because it's already in place. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [+] somedaysoon@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[+] somedaysoon@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] morrowind@lemmy.ml 4 points 3 years ago (1 child) There used to be a bot rating bot on reddit that used those comments to see which bots where actually good. It was useful. I'm hoping someone will make the same on lemmy and go back retroactively to index old comments. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [+] somedaysoon@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent [–] Eezyville@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) I think that on some bots it is meant as feedback on its performance but to have 10 users give the same feedback is kinda annoying. Maybe Lemmy can have a feature were humans can approve/disapprove bot performance that doesn't involve upvote/downvote. It would only be available to bot accounts in the site's UI. Could possibly expand it's functionality to something more useful. Or just use the voting system because it's already in place. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [+] somedaysoon@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] morrowind@lemmy.ml 4 points 3 years ago (1 child) There used to be a bot rating bot on reddit that used those comments to see which bots where actually good. It was useful. I'm hoping someone will make the same on lemmy and go back retroactively to index old comments. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [+] somedaysoon@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[+] somedaysoon@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Eezyville@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) I think that on some bots it is meant as feedback on its performance but to have 10 users give the same feedback is kinda annoying. Maybe Lemmy can have a feature were humans can approve/disapprove bot performance that doesn't involve upvote/downvote. It would only be available to bot accounts in the site's UI. Could possibly expand it's functionality to something more useful. Or just use the voting system because it's already in place. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [+] somedaysoon@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[+] somedaysoon@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] agent_flounder@lemmy.one 9 points 3 years ago Lemmy definitely has a more chill, human vibe than I got with Reddit, given how overrun the latter was with vast armies of shills, bots, alt right trolls, etc. Not that it's all rainbow-pooping unicorns frolicking through flowery meadows here but at least the dick comments tend to be much rarer and often a one off for the person making them. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] DarthBueller@lemmy.world 4 points 3 years ago Opinions are fine. Being disingenuous/an asshole at the same time as having an opinion definitely provokes smackdowns, even on lemmy. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] simin@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago Same goes for 9gag but that site is different permalink fedilink source parent
[–] lom@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 years ago (3 children) Huh, when I clicked on your profile it says 0 posts... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] pjhenry1216@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago (1 child) Profiles are rarely accurate. I viewed the same profile from two different instances (yes the same profile, not the same username from two different instances) and they didn't even have the age of thr account the same. One was 2 years, one was 2 months. So I wouldn't trust that. I'd only trust it if you're logged into that very instance. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 1 point 3 years ago* In this case it's more likely to be because that's one of my alts. This is my main. permalink fedilink source parent [–] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 1 point 3 years ago Read the bio. That's not my main. This is. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] pjhenry1216@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago (1 child) Profiles are rarely accurate. I viewed the same profile from two different instances (yes the same profile, not the same username from two different instances) and they didn't even have the age of thr account the same. One was 2 years, one was 2 months. So I wouldn't trust that. I'd only trust it if you're logged into that very instance. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 1 point 3 years ago* In this case it's more likely to be because that's one of my alts. This is my main. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 1 point 3 years ago* In this case it's more likely to be because that's one of my alts. This is my main. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 1 point 3 years ago Read the bio. That's not my main. This is. permalink fedilink source parent