The problem isnt just that the third party can abuse their access to your information, it's that it is digitally stored and certifiable at all
The most secure data providers in the world have all basically had data breaches by now - including the IRS and US government. There is no party that can guarantee data security, even if they themselves are benevolent.
And for what purpose are we willing to gut privacy online? So it's marginally more difficult for minors to obtain porn?
GTFO. De-anonymization has always been the goal, not 'protecting the children'.