Are we surprised some people's thought processes and decision making might turn extreme when exposed to this?
Yes, actually. I'm not doubting the power of language, but I cannot ever see something anyone ever says alter my sense of reality or right from wrong.
I had a "friend" say to me recently "why do you always go against the grain?" My reply was "I will go against the grain for the rest of my life if it means doing or saying what's right".
I guess my point is that I have a very hard time relating to this.