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[–] 79 points 7 months ago (3 children)

I always loved skirts and thigh highs but I don't feel like a girl, being seen as a girl makes me feel icky. I've always felt like more of a boy (not 100% a boy but definitely 0% girl). It was a bit confusing when I was young because people told me that liking those meant I was a girl. I like girl things but am not a girl.

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  • [–] 82 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Gender presentation != gender identity. You can totally be a boy (cis or trans) and like "girl things", it's all arbitrary stereotypes anyway

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  • [–] 24 points 7 months ago

    I know that well now, when I was a kid it wasn't so clear to me. Many people told me that my desire to play with other boys was because I had a crush on them, which wasn't the reason. I mean I've had crushes on boys but also on girls too (though I didn't dare tell my family that).

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  • [–] 5 points 7 months ago

    Woah, I can see myself having that perspective in a couple of years when I get the courage to try non-masculine clothes. Unless the thigh-high socks I find are magic, letting me try being a passing girl instantly so I can evaluate the experience.

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