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Sexual secret that no-one would ever guess (lemmynsfw.com)

submitted 6 months ago by Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine@lemmynsfw.com to c/asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com

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Tell me something about how you love to be treated in bed that people would never guess from your public persona

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[–] playfulkittykat@pawb.social 5 points 6 months ago (1 child)

That sounds like a great week! Where do you find yourself on the gender spectrum these days? Was it just a kink thing?

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[–] BiCuriousBuns@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 6 months ago

It was a great week, learned a lot about femininity through experience which I think helped make me a better partner today. On the gender spectrum I am male, no ambiguity there. It might have been just a kink thing, maybe mixed with some curiosity and desire to experience what it was like to be the more submissive partner.

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