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What's the longest time you've denied yourself an orgasm? (lemmynsfw.com)

submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by chloespanked@lemmynsfw.com to c/asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com

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If done intentionally, what were you hoping to achieve? What effects did you notice, both desirable and undesirable? Why did you end the orgasm denial streak? What did you learn from the experience? Did you do it solo or with a partner? Demographic details (eg, age, sex, gender, sexual orientation, relevant kinks), if you care to share, are also helpful to understand your experience.

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[–] ExhibiCat@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 9 months ago*

Lingam is amazing if it's done well, it's not 'just a handjob'. It's very gentle. For me it's the most intense sexual experience because it combines deep relaxation with excitement.

Having said that I'm not a typical guy sexually. The girls that did the lingam on me said most guys don't like it. I'm ultra sensitive in daily life as well.

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