Well when I was in my twenties, there was a lady who was in her 40s I was infatuated with. It sounds like 20 years but I think it was closer like only 13 years difference, I just don't remember our exact ages.

She was confident, she was calm, she wasn't fueled by drama, she was kind, she was easy to talk too. And when she let me know that I was too young for her she did it with grace.