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How often do y'all get sexual dreams? (lemmynsfw.com)

submitted 11 months ago by pm_uneven_labia@lemmynsfw.com to c/asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com

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Like last night I had a dream about eating pussy. And a few days ago I had a dream about anal. And so on. I have vivid dreams and also often get sleep paralysis, but usually I lucid dream it away. Interestingly my lucid dreams are non-sexual usually. And it doesn't seem to matter whether or not I jerk off before going to bed, it's still the same likelihood of getting a sexual dream.

Do people with active sex lives get less sexual dreams I wonder?

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[–] zshornyposting@lemmynsfw.com 1 point 11 months ago

Infrequently, but not never? Maybe once every six months or so, possibly yearly. I used to have more, but I remember my dreams less these days so can't be certain its tailed off as much as I think.