I was talking about this recently with some friends and my husband. A friend of mine was under the belief that the wife fucking anyone else was automatically cuckolding.

I spent a while explaining that the two are not the same, and that humiliation can be part of it for either party or neither.

A man could "force" his wife to fuck other men (or women) for his own enjoyment to humiliate and objectify her, or she could fuck other people to humiliate him, or they could fuck other people to entertain and amuse their partner because it's fun.

I don't have a jealous bone in my body and just... like the idea of my husband fucking other women. There isn't an element of humiliation or shame in it for me, I just like that he feels good, like sharing, like fucking in pretty much any combination.

You're in the minority, but definitely not alone.