Holy shit, I am so glad you found a roommate!
I was gonna threaten to gay marry you to escape the US and be your roommate for as long as Social Security Disability still exists, lol.
Also, hopefully you mean you fell in love with this woman as a roommate, and not uh, more broadly.
You just got out of a busted, lopsided relationship of being exploited because you're too trusting.
I've been there too, please do not actually fall in love with this person, you need time to renormalize and fully understand all the ways roommate exploited you, and why they worked.
But, anyway, great news that you've found a roommate, hopefully you can begin to relax your chest and breathe a bit more calmly now =D