I've been on Lemmy before, and I used to be on reddit quite a bit for this. Lemmy is a ghost town for dirty 1:1 chats, and reddit makes it nearly impossible to make throwaway accounts these days.

Mainly looking for one-off chats and generally, people who are also looking for the same thing. Looking for any tips/suggestions on sites, services, forums, etc.

Also, just so it's clear, my DMs will be open 24/7 for dirty and casual convos from anyone, hit me up and say hi!