I've had no less than 3 women dump me directly after crying in front of them. Married one that has no issue with that, but still...

Yeah. Those advocates for gender norms who says girls can be anything too will immediately tell you to "man up" at the first sign of weakness. How about we knock out gender norms both ways?

Guess what im doing with my problems now? And im also not sharing my solutions to said problems after theyre resolved because itll be a "why didnt you handle that sooner?" Or some other bullshit about how you could have prevented it from even starting