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[–] 3 points 1 year ago

The education of people in your life via the 'I can't love you until you learn to love yourself.' tag phrase simply reduces the amount of love the suffering person feels, making it even harder to crawl out of the hole they are in.

Also, giving them 'space' just let's them dig a larger diameter hole.

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