I got into electric play early on. Started with a violet wand and then TENS. Because it's kind of niche, I found myself with a full dance card on most weekends and eventually went on to produce videos. In my local scene I became the guy you to go for this sort of play or advice. I've also been on stage numerous times at various events. This was all pre-COVID.

I wouldn't say it shaped my sexual preferences so much as it shaped my path in the BDSM community. Those were the best years of my life and I'm so glad I let my curiosities get the best of me so many years ago.