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I cannot orgasm, and am getting tired of "enjoying the ride", how can I find pleasure again? (lemmynsfw.com)
submitted 1 year ago by to c/asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com
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I’m 37MTF, and haven’t had an actual orgasm in a…very long time. The last one I experienced was when I relapsed on coke, and it was amazing. Prior to that, I’d say it has been 10+ years since my last orgasm. I don’t plan on falling off again any time soon, so I don’t know what to do.

For a long time, I derived my pleasure from satisfying whichever random guy I was having an encounter with. This worked for so many years, but I’ve grown tired of it now.

I think it is the HRT I am on that has extinguished my ability to cum. I won’t stop taking it, but I want to feel it again—I’ve forgotten.

Receiving oral does nothing for me, being penetrated is nice, but I’m over it.

What suggestions might you have? What can I do? Or do I need to try to learn to enjoy it again? If so, how?

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[–] 1 point 1 year ago

It's a start, It might be worth trying the viagra if it's something you are comftorable with. As for the psych drugs it can be hard to find one that works for you. It may be worth trying something different, you know you best though. In any case, I hope you find a solution. If it makes you feel better, I can't get hard half the time due to a combination of anxiety, depression, and excessive cooming.

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