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I cannot orgasm, and am getting tired of "enjoying the ride", how can I find pleasure again? (lemmynsfw.com)
submitted 1 year ago by to c/asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com
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I’m 37MTF, and haven’t had an actual orgasm in a…very long time. The last one I experienced was when I relapsed on coke, and it was amazing. Prior to that, I’d say it has been 10+ years since my last orgasm. I don’t plan on falling off again any time soon, so I don’t know what to do.

For a long time, I derived my pleasure from satisfying whichever random guy I was having an encounter with. This worked for so many years, but I’ve grown tired of it now.

I think it is the HRT I am on that has extinguished my ability to cum. I won’t stop taking it, but I want to feel it again—I’ve forgotten.

Receiving oral does nothing for me, being penetrated is nice, but I’m over it.

What suggestions might you have? What can I do? Or do I need to try to learn to enjoy it again? If so, how?

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[–] 11 points 1 year ago (1 child)

Fwiw, that's not a rare issue. Usually, hrt doses and varieties being altered either fixes or reduces the difficulty.

Mind you, you didn't mention any surgical outcomes, so the above assumes there haven't been any that would affect the genitals. Otherwise, it's a way more complex situation. Hrt adjustment would still be the most probable fix, but it could be something structural as well or instead of. Which could still be the case, even if it hadn't been a problem before because there can be changes over time post genital surgeries.

You mentioned having a doctor's appointment soon, so I don't doubt that you'll find resolution eventually.

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