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Have you ever had your orgasms controlled by a partner? How did they exercise control and what was your experience of it like? (kinkycats.org)

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Have you ever had your orgasms controlled by a partner? How did they exercise control and what was your experience of it like?

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[–] emililyks@kinkycats.org 6 points 1 year ago (1 child)

@Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine @asklemmynsfw

A FWB put me in chastity from time to time and played with my remote vibrator for a couple hours, no matter how desperate and needy I got. Sometimes she let me out, sometimes I had to keep it on and wait for the next time. When she let me out, immediately after she told me when to start and stop touching myself, this also took up to 30 minutes now and then.

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[–] emililyks@kinkycats.org 4 points 1 year ago

@Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine @asklemmynsfw

I was not allowed to cum until she said so. When I failed, I had to get back into the cage immediately, and only got teased with the cage on for the next days. Not only was I conditioned to only cum on her command after a couple weeks, but it also made me extremely obedient. I was also very bratty back then, that changed over the time of training...

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