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When was the last time you went clubbing? (lazysoci.al)
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[–] [S] 1 point 1 year ago (11 children)

I'm intrigued. Are you underage? Live in Antarctica? Morally opposed? Or is it that I'm totally out of touch with young people? I suspect it's the last one

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    I haven't either, despite being in a city and my 20s. I think plenty of young people still go clubbing, but I think I'm too anxious/neurodivergent for it.

    I see the appeal, but I get overwhelmed by enviroments like that unless I'm very drunk (which I want to do less), I can't dance, and I don't know how to talk to people :(

    I'll occasionally go to a bar with friends, but it has to be a quieter spot with somewhere we can all sit and hang out.

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I'm neurodiverse too! What condition do you have?

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child)

    adhd/autism, only officially diagnosed with the former, though. Although audhd is really its own distinct neurotype. I think one of the biggest things for me in this case is the audio processing issue (which makes it difficult to interact with people in loud environments. loud bars are bad enough, I don't think I could handle clubs)

    What about you?

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I was an awkward nerd when I was younger and never went to any of those things now I'm older and still don't want to or know anyone who would. I also don't use alcohol which I believe is a big part of those places.

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