Instead of being blinded by feelings, we need to start working together to craft new narratives for the results we actually want. It’s not even that hard to do.

Bingo.

I once got somebody to think differently about green energy by harassing the power of patriotism. His initial argument basically boiled down to "new is scary and I don't see why we need to change anyways", and I hit him with a "what are you talking about, innovation is what made america great", and I could see the loading icon spin in his brain.

I've also gotten conservative family in on medicare-for-all by pointing out that the military maybe doesn't have enough healthy citizens to pull from if a crisis happened, and if we're gonna be serious about national defense, we absolutely need national healthcare.