Background: 15 years of experience in software and apparently spoiled because it was already set up correctly.
Been practicing doing my own servers, published a test site and 24 hours later, root was compromised.
Rolled back to the backup before I made it public and now I have a security checklist.
The TLDR is here : https://www.digitalocean.com/community/tutorials/recommended-security-measures-to-protect-your-servers
You wonโt be protected from a dedicated, knowledgeable attacker until you do the rest of what the other poster said, and then some,
You're right I didn't even get to ACME and PKI or TOTP
https://letsencrypt.org/getting-started/
https://openbao.org/docs/secrets/pki/
https://openbao.org/docs/secrets/totp/
And for bonus points build your own certificate authority to sign it all.
https://smallstep.com/blog/build-a-tiny-ca-with-raspberry-pi-yubikey/