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submitted 2 years ago by Elrecoal19_0@lemmy.world to c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@lemmy.ca

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[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 19 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I used zero gendered terms in my comment.

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[–] MBM@lemmings.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child)

It can come across as weird/deliberate if you're using "they" for trans people but "he"/"she" for cis people (obviously, not gendering is still miles better than misgendering though)

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[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago

Ratio'd

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[+] match@pawb.social -12 points 2 years ago (2 children)

"their awkwardness"?

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[–] DeRp_DaWg@lemmy.world 22 points 2 years ago

"their" is literally a gender neutral pronoun.

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[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Idk about your native language but English does not rely on gender for grammar and therefor you can create sentences describing anything and anyone without assigning gendered pronouns.

"They/them" are not terms assigning no gender, they are terms devoid of assignment.

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