You're not entitled to choose otherwise unless you're actually willing to pay for it. Zoning laws that force an oversupply of single-family homes are effectively a subsidy of that lifestyle, and it's high fuckin' time for that subsidy to end!

In other words, if you own a house in the suburbs, you might think you're a rugged individualist who bought at fair market value, but you're actually a damn welfare queen and don't even realize it.