And this is what i meant when i was telling you about why i prefer the free nature of something like lemmy rather that a restrictive echochameber like tildes, you can call me an ashole that takes drugs on top of a horse and i can call you a jerkish snowflake without any of us getting banned, and while yes the discusion did devolve into a monkey slap fight, whe can choose when to disengage and even if whe whant to block the other user. This choise is owrs and not of some power tripping jannie. If whe where having a discucion like this over at tilde whe both would have been banned by now for being rude. So my conclusion is fuck em (lol).