This is pretty much my experience from the other side of things. Anal is fun, it's mostly going in that feels incredible.
To note one big difference, if there is a toy involved (as in DP), totally different story - feels incredible the whole time! Now we just need another penis to enjoy and we can see how that feels.
In general, PIV is my go to, love being able to see my wife's eyes, or how her expression changes while I'm inside her. That right there is more of a turn on than anything else.