I just wanted some insights from other fathers... (thelemmy.club)

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We're currently looking to start a family, so I thought I'd hit up YT for some advice as a male and the priority skew is mental. The most important thing is having a boy, apparently. Not tips for being supportive, how to help your partner, how to deal with anxieties about money and time.

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Dad's of Lemmy could you share some good advice for someone just starting a family please :D

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[-] sbv@sh.itjust.works 13 points 2 years ago

Stay away from YouTube. There is some stuff you'll need a howto for (swaddling a baby, correctly installing a car seat, cleaning bottles), but YouTube won't help with the important things.

Like others say: be there for your partner. Don't expect an immediate connection with the kid (it took 6+ months for me). Be proactive about helping out.

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