My old person trait is that I think 'ghosting' is completely unacceptable and you owe the other person a face-to-face conversation.
I went to a wedding last week and I was one of the very few who was actually watching the procession with my own eyes rather through a camera app.
Exactly why that during our wedding we made a PSA to not take pictures or videos, and we have a dedicated professional taking care of that and we'll give access to those photos after.